Wednesday, September 14, 2005

.: Disheartening:.

I have no idea should i be even be blogging about this. I guess many are just simply ignorant (or pretending to be) about what have gone wrong among the class. It's already so disheartening to know that outing organised and end up pang seh. But it feels even more disheartening to see the class getting 四分五裂.

I dunnoe if some have taken such outing for granted. Everytime we "say good" want to do this, do that, but if nobody ever mention a date or initiate to carry out wat we "say good", no one would want to lift their finger to arrange the time cos everyone would be expecting that "someone" to do the organising part. Everyone has taken things for granted, there is always that "someone" to plan for them and the rest can sit back and relax, wait for the sms. Frankly speaking, it's called selfish. If everyone do not want to care, then the organiser can choose not to bother as well. If you think that planning class outing was ever so easy, you are terribly horribly wrong. Simply trying to arrange the time and date can be so blood puking already. So when everything plan sui sui and almost 50% say cannot make it, puke somemore blood. How frustrating can it get?

I understand such things happen very frequently and it's very normal. But because there are some who dun see the need for class bonding that makes the whole thing even more frustrating. We are going to see each other for the next 3 years or so as classmates. If we do not bond well and bochap one another, how are we ever going to let our relationship survive? Being in uni is not all about mugging and killing yourself with books... there should also be time for decent socialising and interaction. Why let your life swallow up by books? I know uni is all about independent learning and blah blah blah.. but there are times that we still depend on one another. If there is no class bonding and a good relationship among the class.. life are going to be a lot more miserable in uni. Why not keep the class together?

It is inevitable that many friction do occur among such a big group. There are times we do have disagreements and miscommunications. Some who are always acting very mysteriously, some who prefer to hide at home with their notes, some who prefer to take a back seat and relax.... there are tendency to stick with people who share similar ideas but i really hope that the class wun segregate further. To bring the class together, it is not the effort of one person. is a class's effort...

If you understand what the hell lot of nonsense i am crapping about, you should really appreciate the effort of that "someone" who always arrange outings for us. Show her your appreciation and respect for her effort by turning up and not mysteriously "fly aeroplane". I guess i can really put myself in her shoes and see for myself how pek chek can it get. If you feel sian and dun feel like turning up, i can tell u that the organiser feels even more sian. Really blood-puking....

by ^momo^ at 1:02 PM |